Adventure Time: FR: Look-back
Konnichi wa,
My first FieldRapport on this site. Yes, adventure time!
How succesfull was I in terms of closing?
Not very, but I learned alot of lessons, and hopefully the progressive desensitation has begun.
Let’s see where to start.
My normal buddy’s I go out with where both gone to a open-air festival, which I couldn’t attend due to work.
So, I was planning to go out on my own for the second time, which is an interesting experience on it’s own.
Luckily or maybe not, depends how you view this?
This has not happened, the first day I intended going out alone, a girl I knew and went out before asked if I joined her, and some cool guys.
I had a blast, I also did Four approaches.
The first three went horrible, I came off as a creepy man, not like someone who has managed his own internal Castle. More like the creepy Dungeon Dude.
Anyways, it was a nice adventure and I learned alot.
1. Do silly stuff to break the ice, don’t come off too Strong especially if your nervous like hell.
2. Just approach, approach approach. A girl is fun approach!
3. Keep in mind ask yourself the question “How can I make this fun, for MYSELF”, I have fun in approaching the girls. Seeing how I can interact with them
4. You don’t know what is going on in a girls life, don’t blame it on her completely, she might been going through a rough time.
5. This Game/Seduction-arts, self-improvement, should have the central theme of “fun”.
FR:Social Circle, part:1
This was pretty solid, I had loadsa fun. I learned alot about vibing, I love low-noise party’s you can take the time to know someone better, and I met some dudes I knew from school.
Now, I wasn’t the coolest kid in school, I was actually pretty weird, and these dudes had the same thoughts about it.
But I took ACTION in my life, and I have worked on the creepyness, I can chill pretty good with new people now, who I meet through social circle. But cold-approaching is still my Kryptonite. Luckily I made some cool connections, in this social-circle event. And this reinforces and adds bricks to my social-life part of my castle.
~Svadishtana
